Life of Mine

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My name is Necelo N. Malintad, my friends call me "Plong", 22 yrs living w/ happiness, sacrifice,promises,regrets,sins, pain and many more...im just me!!! not perfect but certainly real..often judge by other people but i dont care about what they say. this is me!!! my style, my rules... im super duper music lover, i listen to music a lot than to face myself in front of the person that i dont like...im a simple person who has a simple plans for myself but has a big plans for my family..i love to hang-out with my friends.....

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Huwebes, Enero 23, 2014

Top And Bottom:Which one?



Which role in bed do you preferred best?topping or bottomming? I have always been a top,since I discovered gay sex,I don't know,I just don't like being the bottom and my sweet ass is still a virgin till now!LOL. Its freakin painful one time I inserted my finger on it and i don't like it what more if a 6inches dick is on it?! I might break and bleed!kidding!

Since we have the same biological structure,this is usually an issue to most gays.I read from somewhere that the role in bed reflects one's personality,that gays who do the "topping" assumes the role of being the dominant one,he is the man in the house in a relationship and the "bottom" is the one that is more submissive,he likes to be dominated,he likes to be the "housewife".

But what about those gays who preferred to be "versa"?I think they are GOD!!!!hahaha.Imagine they could do both,this is the most flexible role ever,you wouldn't have a problem if you found a guy who strictly plays top and bottom,like me.Because for me,when I'm chatting and looking for someone to meet,the question of "are you top or bottom" are always there...and you would tell you're top and he's top too,then its the end of your conversati0n,goodbye Mr.Nice Guy already.

Its really a disappointment for me especially if the guy is nice and I like him and the only problem for us to be together is the role in bed.I've been with a top boyfriend too in the past and we did just fine.I'll tell you about it in my next post.

normal lang magkaron ng tampuhan sa mga magkakaibigan.



Hindi mo maalis sa isang grupo ng magkakaibigan ang magkatampuhan. Hindi naman kasi sa lahat ng oras magakakasundo kayo. Hindi sa lahat ng oras pareho kayo ng takbo ng isip. Ganon din sa mga mag be-bestfriends. Hindi maiiwasan yung magkatampuhan kayo. Dito kasi nasusubok kung gaano kayo katibay ng kaibigan mo. Sa tampuhang naganap mare-realize mo kung gaano siya kahalaga sa iyo. Kahit na ano pang ginawa niyang mali mapapatawad mo pwera nalang siguro kung inagaw niya syota mo. Ibang usapan na yun. Pero depende pa rin yun sa pagkakamaling nagawa mo.
Ano nga ba ang cause ng mga tampuhan ng magkakaibigan?
  • Hindi kayo nagkasundo sa isang seryosong bagay
  • Ginawa mo yung sinabi niyang wag mong gagawin
  • Sinumbong mo kalokohan niya sa parents niya
  • Nakikipaglandian ka sa boyfriend/girlfriend niya
  • Nagbiro ka ng wala sa oras.
Marami pang iba. Para sa akin ang importante naman kahit na magkaroon kayo ng tampuhan dapat marunong kayong tumanggap ng pagkakamali niyo. Marunong kayong umako ng kasalanan. Marunong humingi ng sincere na sorry. Marunong magbigay ng forgiveness.
Ang mahalaga magkaayos kayo. Naniniwala kasi ako na ang girlfriend/boyfriend makikita ko din yan pwede mong palitan. Pero ang tunay na kaibigan mahirap na hanapin yun.

#FRIENDS4EVER #PEACE

ang daya lang sa pag-ibig kapag mahal mo ang isang tao hindi mo talaga to matitiis


Bakit nga ba ganon? Masasabi ba nating unfair yun?
Hindi siguro. Depende pa rin sa tao. Ganon talaga kapag naranasan mo ng mag mahal. Lahat ng sakripisyo ibibigay mo sa taong mahal mo. Lahat ng effort mo ibibigay mo sa kanya. Lahat gagawin mo para lang maging masaya yung taong mahal mo. Normal lang yun sa isang taong nagmamahal. Kaso ang tanong, ganon din ba siya sayo? Mahal ka din ba niya gaya ng pagmamahal mo sa kanya? Dun mag start ang issue. Kung alam mong mahal niyo ang isa’t isa ng pantay, wala kayong problema. Kung hindi naman ibang topic na yan.
Ano nga bang meron pag mas mahal mo yung partner mo kaysa sa mas mahal ka niya? O mas mahal ka niya kaysa sa pagmamahal mo?
Eto yung mga tendencies na pwedeng mangyari:
  • Pwedeng mag take advantage yung isang party. Dahil alam niyang mas mahal siya nung partner niya.
  • Mas magiging matampuhin yung isang party na mas mahal siya nung partner niya.
  • Most of the time yung mas mahal yung partner niya yung laging umiintindi.
  • At yung isang party naman ang laging tama kapag may away.
Marami pang iba. Unfair lang dun sa taong mas mahal yung partner niya. Kasi kahit anong gawin mo pag alam mong mas lamang yung binibigay mong pagmamahal sa kanya hindi mo siya matitiis. Kahit na madami pa siyang ginagawang ayaw mo, kaunting lambing lang bibigay ka na.
Kaya dapat laging balanse lang ang pagmamahal niyo sa isa’t isa. Walang mas mahal mo siya oh mas mahal ka niya. Kasi hindi naman dapat sinusukat yung pagmamahal eh.

4 people you will meet in life



  1. Yourself.
  2. The one you love most.
  3. The one who love you most.
  4. The one that you will spend the rest of your life with. 
Sadly in real life, these 3 people are usually not the same person. The one you love most, doesn’t love you. The one who love you most is never the one you love most. And the one that you will spend your life with, is never the one you love or the one who love you most. 
He or she is just the person who happens to be at the right place and at the right time. 

hirap na talaga mainlove sa panahon ngayon….



  • Biro mo, tila sobrang sweet na ng mga tao ngayon sayo, akala mo may gusto rin sila sayo, tapos kapag ikaw na yung nahulog, dededmahin ka na. Trippings lang?
  • Tapos may mga tao rin na nag-eeffort kunwari na makuha loob mo, tapos kapag sinagot mo na sila o kapag kayo na, malalaman mong hindi naman pala sila seryoso sayo.
  • Meron ding super sweet sayo, tapos yun pala, sweet din siya sa iba. 
  • Ang masaklap pa, nag-iloveyou din siya sayo, tapos nalaman mong 5 pala kayong sinasabihan niya non.
Kaya matuto na tayo. Hindi lahat ng taong sweet sayo eh gusto ka rin. Hindi lahat ng nageeffort eh puso mo ang habol, yung iba, gusto lang talaga maka-“score”. Hindi lahat ng “I love you”, totoo. At hindi lahat ito, sinasabi sa tamang dahilan. Yung iba, “memasabi lang”. 
Ingat-ingat sa panahong ito. Maulan pa naman, at madalas nang bumagyo. Ay teka, pag-ibig ba pinaguusapan natin? Pero oo, pwede rin. Sa pag-ibig, madalas binabagyo rin, kaya ikaw, maging handa ka lagi.

LGBT

LGBT (or GLBT) is an initialism used since the 1990s as a self-designation by what was formerly known as the “gay community”. It refers collectively to “lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender” people. In use since the 1990s, the term “LGBT” is an adaptation of the initialism “LGB”, which itself started replacing the phrase “gay community” beginning in the mid-to-late 1980s, which many within the community in question felt did not accurately represent all those to whom it referred. The term LGBT is intended to emphasize a diversity of “sexuality and gender identity-based cultures” and is sometimes used to refer to anyone who is non-heterosexual instead of exclusively to people who are homosexual, bisexual, or transgender. To recognize this inclusion, a popular variant adds the letter Q for those who identify as queer and/or questioning their sexual identity (e.g., “LGBTQ” or “GLBTQ”)